H and I split six months ago, I still love him deeply and hope one day he will see sense. He claims it is not a midlife crisis but has joined a band and hangs round with a different group of people.
One of these people was a friend of mine. We went out drinking and to the cinema etc. I know lots about her including how she still loves her ex and her door will always be open for him to return.
Fast forward to my breakup, I am distraught. We had been together 16 years and had a wonderful marriage apart from the last few months due to my ill health. I then find out that my friend is inviting H and another couple to dinner - on a regular basis. He is now spending a lot of time with the three of them and their children (our own DS is not invited as H only has him on a Saturday and has never had him overnight).
Lots of people are talking about them and I am trying to distance myself from gossip - but I feel the same - it is just not something you do. Both of them.
AIBU or is this normal? Friend no longer speaks to me as she thinks she has done nothing wrong (she knows I still love him) and objected to me asking her outright if they were in a relationship. H denies a relationship and claims they are friends and he goes as he is lonely as nobody else invites him ...
AIBU to think they have both overstepped a line where you just don't do this to a friend and partner???