This weekend has not gone well! I'm prepared to be told that I'm being completely U, will be interested in what people have to say.
Basically, we live in a house and garden that need quite a lot of jobs doing to keep on top of maintaining both. DH is very handy and does most of these jobs. I am very good about taking DS (2) off at weekends so that DH can get on with jobs, and pretty much every weekend I take DS off for much of the time, although normally we will all spend an afternoon together, and sometimes have a day out the 3 of us.
DH helps with cooking and bedtime in the evening, and he is a good dad.
Anyway, this Saturday, I got DS up, took him out all morning, shopping and went to library. I caught up with DH whilst DS was down for his afternoon nap. DH had been for a run (1 hr) and spent rest of morning insulating loft.
I made a lighthearted comment, can't remember the words, about how good it was of me to have had DS all morning, basically just wanting some acknowledgement of that fact, but it didn't go down well and DH got in to a temper and said I didn't appreciate all the hard work he puts in doing all the jobs around the house, and it escalated in to a huge argument, and we still haven't sorted it out! I know we are both acting like children and I do feel ashamed of myself. So do I need to go and apologise to him? I expect to be told I do!