About 6 months ago my husbands friend and his wife miscarried, there was an amniotic sac but no baby had developed. I spent a lot of time with the wife supporting her and also being a shoulder to cry on, particularly when it came to lighter hubby had cheated on her too on a business trip. Myself and DH found out we were expecting late August and told our friends at the 12 week stage ( I'm now 15 wks). We had arranged to go on holiday with them which happened last week. Before the holiday my DH's friend told him to tell me not to mention my pregnancy during the holiday as his wife was having trouble coming to terms with the fact I was pregnant. Luckily I am not showing! So we went on holiday and each day they suggested doing really active things like go-karting, parasailing and kayaking across the sea to another island, all activities I wasn't prepared to do due to my pregnancy. I'm rhesus negative and couldn't risk a bleed as limited access to healthcare. Anyway my DH went along with some of these plans leaving me in the rented villa to cook and clean. They also wanted to drink each night and spent a lot of our budget on alcohol which I contributed towards but obviously couldn't drink. They made all the plans with little consideration for me, and chose the restaurants we would be eating in, one gave me a really bad stomach upset and I spent 12 hours on the toilet. Also whenever I said I can't eat that as I am pregnant for example smoked salmon and blue cheeses they said "oh well I ate it when I was pregnant" I explained that some women were prepared to take the risk whereas I wasn't but they kept judging my decisions. I felt like I was being punished all week for being pregnant. AIBU to feel this way?