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To think this us a bit dodgy (related to my cleaner)

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GColdtimer · 04/11/2014 22:03

My cleaner has been coming to me for about 3-4 years. Sometimes she brings a friend and they do an hour each rather than one person doing 2 hours. Makes no odds to me. Invariably the friend does not speak much English (they are Polish) and so I just pay my original cleaner £20 and presume they sort it out amongst themselves. She has probably brought 4 different friends over the last 3 years and always texts me first to ask if it is ok. She used to live near me but I found out they were recently evicted from their house for being over populated. I don't know where she lives now and for the last 3 weeks she has just sent her friend to clean and has text me to ask what I need doing. Each week I try to pay her friend but she refuses to take the money. My original cleaner keeps saying she will pick up the money but hasn't.

I now have £120 for her as my FIL has dropped his money off here for my cleaner to collect as well (he is in the same situation).

I am questioning why the friend won't take the money and wondering how the friend is being paid if I have all the cash here?

AIBU to think this is a very odd and to be a bit worried about the friend.

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Unexpected · 06/11/2014 21:58

What is the betting that her friend turns up tomorrow, cleans, and then original cleaner fails to materialise when the friend is ready to leave?

TheReluctantCountess · 06/11/2014 22:03

How odd.

GColdtimer · 07/11/2014 10:19

She is here now. Seemed fine. I asked if she was ok, she said yes and smiled. Told me the bus was late and traffic bad so English is coming on. I asked where she had to come from, clamped up and said "talk to Joanna". She is coming later. We will see.

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EWAB · 07/11/2014 11:51

Do you know anyone who speaks Polish? Parents at children's school who might be able to translate?

GColdtimer · 07/11/2014 16:23

So cleaner came at 3pm, apologised and assured me she was paying her friend but thanked me for being concerned. So all is fine and I gave her the £160 I owe her.

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TheReluctantCountess · 07/11/2014 18:33

I think I'd be finding a different cleaner. There's somethung not right.

TheReluctantCountess · 07/11/2014 18:33

Somethung? Blimey.

Unexpected · 07/11/2014 21:12

But all is not fine is it? You now have a cleaner whom you never actively chose and with whom you can't converse.

GColdtimer · 07/11/2014 21:21

Sorry, meant to say they are coming together in future. She said they had been busy with moving and new house etc. she assured me she had been paying her friend.

She has been coming for 3-4 years and is a great cleaner so am reluctant to find someone else unless there is a good reason. Hopefully it is all sorted now.

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ThreeQuartersEmpty · 07/11/2014 21:29

Have you seen the TV adverts for trafficking?

ThreeQuartersEmpty · 07/11/2014 22:08

The Home Office mustn't put their ads on YouTube. This is the advert I meant on this page scroll down. I'm not suggesting that this is your situation at all OP. But for a cleaner to turn up with others who don't speak and won't take money, I think it's worth considering. There's a number to phone.

www.theguardian.com/global-development/2014/jul/31/home-office-campaign-modern-day-slavery

GColdtimer · 07/11/2014 22:29

Thanks. I will take a look. The friend seemed quite happy but I will give it some thought and read up further.

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