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What would be the best response to this?

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extremepie · 02/11/2014 16:33

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AliceLidl · 02/11/2014 18:06

Don't reply to them, it will feed the fire.

It's also not your business, as you say. Especially if they were sending the messages about you to your friend and he was passing them on to you.

Have they involved you because you have responded to them in the past? If so, I can understand you wanting to defend your friend but you are not doing him any favours, just winding them up even more.

Goodboy is right, he should keep a detailed record of any contact, any abusive messages or comments made in person or via Facebook etc. Times, dates, names, copies of messages or screenshots with names etc.

Keep it all, build a case for harassment, but don't reply at all, no matter how difficult that may feel.

He can speak to Citizens Advice and Victim Support have this to say about harassment.

PrettyPictures92 · 02/11/2014 18:22

Have you asked your friend if he wants you to get involved? Sometimes the person it's happening to would rather no one else interfered. Just some food for thought.

Hope you and he are ok Flowers

extremepie · 02/11/2014 19:26

Alice I think they only brought me up because they thought it would hurt him more if you see what I mean, I don't think they intended me to see what they said about me!

She has messaged me in the past, mostly just to slag him off or ask me to talk to him about xyz rather than talking to him directly.

Yes I have asked him pretty, he said he just wanted to leave it and he didn't really respond to the messages I just saw his face reading them and he looked so hurt I'm furious with them :(

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