My ex partner and I split up in Feb this year after 6 years together. We spent the last 2 years together in seperate beds, no intimacy and loads of arguing. The house we lived in at the time his parents bought for us. We paid rent for 3 years and the hope was that we would get a mortgage to buy the house from his dad but obviously that didnt happen. When we split his folks said that my ex could keep the house on as long as our son (5) lived with my ex, as you can imagine I was having none of that so me and my son were given a dead line to be out of the property which nearly made us homeless.
I got a lovely flat for my son and I with a private letting agency which is long term. At the beginning my ex was seeing our son on a thursday and friday and bringing him home to me on a Saturday morning. As soon as I brought up the subject of maintenence my ex demanded that care was 50/50 which I stupidly agreed to. Things have been working out great for us all until the last week or two.
In April I started dating someone, I know lots of folk will think thats quick but like I said above there was no intimacy for 2 whole years! Anyway this guy I have been seeing is everything I look for in someone and I do see it going further, that has been 6 months now. I spoke to my ex telling him I had moved on and that one day I would like my son and this guy to meet, well all hell broke loose. He stood in my home telling me that there was no way I was going to play happy families with HIS son and that bastard! I asked my ex 3/4 times to leave my house.
Since this he has threatned to take me to court to get full custody of our son, I am panicking!
Has anyone been in this situation?