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To ask whether this is normal regarding circumcision?

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LoafersOrLouboutins · 16/10/2014 18:15

I've recently been on a few dates with a former colleague and we're now sleeping together. Things are going great. I'm not the most experienced of people and Former colleague (he isn't DP so I don't know what to call him!) is the first circumcised man I've been with. This is Blush but he needs to thrust a LOT harder to feel anything and when I go on top he likes me to bounce with force rather than rock IYSWIM (maybe I should have left this thread until I've had some Wine on a Friday). I enjoy DTD with him but it is definitely a lot rougher and for the first time, I think I need lube. Really sorry if that was TMI but is this normal with circumcised men?

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Darkandstormynight · 17/10/2014 04:11

No this isn't the norm at all! It's 'technique' Confused

I had one boyfriend years ago that switched positions (I kid you not) 30 times in a 'session'. It was awful!

GirlWithTheLionHeart · 17/10/2014 06:37

The foreskin has lots of nerves so when it's cut off they lose sensitivity.

I shagged a guy who was cut once and it took him ages to finish

bonzo77 · 17/10/2014 06:56

It's him and his preferences.

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 17/10/2014 08:52

Not necessarily the case; I could make my circumcised partner orgasm within a few minutes of PIV if I wanted - no roughness required.

Espii · 17/10/2014 12:05

My DP isn't cirumcised and doesn't need it rough but we're compatible either way.
Some men do lose sensation, so it might be to do with that, or he's using death grip when he's wanking. idk.

UpduffedFatty · 17/10/2014 12:20

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Sallyingforth · 17/10/2014 13:34

Re the lube suggestion - if he's not getting enough feeling at the moment, won't the lube make it worse? It's designed to make him slippery and reduce the friction.

Rainbunny · 17/10/2014 17:12

No, my DH is circumcised and he doesn't need the level of simulation that your partner seems to need. It might be something that gets better the as your relationship matures. Sometimes the better you get to know each other's bodies and become more comfortable with each other, the time it takes to orgasm gets shorter. In the meantime lube is your friend!

ClapHandsIfYouBelieveInFatties · 17/10/2014 17:36

I have also slept with a...ahem fair number of circumcised men and they do in my experience need more....friction. They are not as sensitive.

ClapHandsIfYouBelieveInFatties · 17/10/2014 17:37

I hate circumcision. My DH feels that something was stolen from him and bitterly resents his parents for doing it to him.

ClapHandsIfYouBelieveInFatties · 17/10/2014 17:38

Dark but it depends on how long the session is. I don't think switching positions is odd or awful. We switch about 10 times in one session of half an hour! Is that odd?

chaya5738 · 17/10/2014 21:03

I have been with mainly circumsized men but my husband is not. There is no difference except that my husband (who is not circumsized) got a urinary tract infection once - y'ouch! - and is a bit more sensitive during foreplay. The sex is the same though.

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