I have tried to start 3 threads in '30 days only'

[Paradisetarmaced]

But cannot find them. Terrified and terrified of being accused of Troll.

I am sorry for all you are going through Paradisetarmaced. I appreciate that you are stressed beyond compare but you need to eat to keep your strength up both for you and your DC - perhaps some soup or toast? Sending prayers (or if you don't want prayers, positive vibes) of strength your way.

I'm in 30 days.
Yes, managing bread, pate and tomatoes, soup- that sort of thing.

You're posting in AIBU Paradise. So I second what wooooosualsuspect said or at least try and get it moved to 30 days.