I have a friend my age (30s) who is constantly falling out with people, quite often me and when I'm talking to her she conplains nastily about others to me.
Yesterday she found out that I send a message joking to another friend not to ask her for advice as she's still selling silly messages to her ex, who ignores her.
She's demanded to see the messages that mention her and called me a "sly, sneeky snake"
I just really can't be bothered, in all my years as an adult she's the only one I have had more than one falling out with.
I think she's more angry at herself, but always blames others for her shortcomings. I've banned her from staying with me as she's just a horrible critical houseguest, like as soon as she's feeling unwell she blamed it on the dinner I cooked.
Aibu to just cut her out and think an adult shouldn't behave like her?