MyNameIsASACshraderAndYouCanGo ·
14/10/2014 15:43
I'm on my phone so will be brief. Neighbours told me that they caught someone trying to get in my back garden yesterday, and they chased him off. He's a local lad, in trouble a lot, (was outside a pub at 11;30pm asking strangers for a pound for his bus fare home - he lived round the corner... He made the mistake of asking my mum, then ran off when she told him off)
He is the son of a couple me and ex used to foursome with. The couple split up in the last year or so. I'm still in contact with the wife, not close, just fb and promises of a catchup that never happens. My house is a terrace with an alley going between me and my neighbour. There is no other way to get to my garden, there is no reason for anyone but me or neighbours to be in the alley. I doubt he knows it's MY house, just trying his luck.
I don't Want a confrontation, I don't want to fall out with the mum, but I really don't think I'd get anywhere with her if I told her what he was doing - she refused to believe her dd was pissed and vomiting all over when I told her 10 years ago.
Would you go straight to the police? Would that make things worse for confrontation / fallout?