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Fecking charity collecty donation people who won't take the fecking donation!

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KingJoffreysBloodshotEye · 10/10/2014 11:57

HmmConfused

Knock at the door. Grinning man in blue bib. Wants money for charity - forgot which, random selection of small letters.

I actually have some change on me - hardly ever have any cash. Made me feel all organised.

I offer. He can't take it. They can't take cash. They can only have bank details. And it can't be a one of payment, it has to be a monthly thing.

Whatever happened to being grateful for what they're given?

I'm pissed off!!

Angry
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Nanny0gg · 11/10/2014 21:16

Chugger leapt out at me a few weeks ago and said 'lady who cares?!' He didn't quite know how to respond to my answer of 'lady that doesn't give a shit actually'.

Grin

I hate to break it to the poster that did a text donation, but you will be on the bombard list soon...

What's GAYE by the way?

Bingbongbinglybunglyboo · 11/10/2014 21:28

peace please do a quick google of Dan pollata's TED talk. Apologies I can't link to it.

Why is it that you are proud to be the uk charity that spends least on admin? Surely it would be better to be proud to be a charity that has most impact/ measurable outcomes / reach most people.

I believe for charities to be successful, they must invest in excellent admin, marketing, fundraising etc, and don't berate them spending donated money on theses things- if it means they can do more of their work.

ballsballsballs · 11/10/2014 21:31

Give as you earn, or payroll giving NannyOgg

DanyStormborn the guys who knock on doors are not legally allowed to take cash donations.

AmIthatHot · 11/10/2014 21:53

I had a Barney with one earlier in the week. I think it was about 8.30 ish but it was already dark. I think he was from Marie Curie.

I told him it was far too late to come knocking on people's doors and he rather pompously started to say "actually, we are legally allowed to....."

I cut him off and said I didn't care what he was legally allowed to,do, he was being a nuisance and I was pretty sure he wouldn't be raising very much by knocking on people's doors at night.

Then said goodbye and shut the door

And I don't even feel guilty, sorry

Minerves · 11/10/2014 22:17

I don't give my bank details to charities full stop.I'll donate in charity boxes and stuff to shops, but not monthly direct debit.

GatoradeMeBitch · 12/10/2014 01:18

A few years ago my finances were pretty good so I thought I would take out a couple of charity dd's and started with a major charity. Almost immediately I started getting harassed by them - letters begging for money for special projects and several phone calls a week. The caller would either sound very sad about the fact that I made the minimum donation per month, because didn't I realize how much needed to be done and how many people I could help if I doubled it or made a one-off payment? The other option was for them to act as if my measly donation was barely even worth their time and that I was a vile person for only donating the minimum amount (the amount that is always mentioned in their adverts.) I cancelled the direct debit and just started hanging up when they introduced themselves on the phone. They have put me off ever donating by dd again. And I'll never give a charity my phone number again either.

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