History , was bought up by dad who met his girlfriend when I was 10 who had 4 kids older than me.
Step mum expects my dad to treat hers like his but doesn't do the same for me.
Step brother has 2 kids and 3 step kids all of which which call my dad grandad but she won't call my daughter granddaughter.
Rig so here's the problem.
It's my daughters first Xmas this year and unfortuntly we will probably be in hospital for it so asked my dad if he would join us and step mum ( only if she wanted )
He said yes and then rang me to say that she is kicking off because they had a family Xmas planned with the grand kids and it's unreasonable for me to ask them to spend it in a hospital. ( can't split the day in two as no travel )
So I said what is she spent it with them at home then and he could come to us and she kicked of saying it wasn't fair in the other grand kids . AIBU to ask him.