At what point WIBU? I really don't think I can take anymore

[3LeetleKeettens]

Sex twice in about 9 months, no reason given, hints because she's overweight. I personally think she is beautiful and sexy which I have told her several times.

When she's stressed she turns into a zombie and shuts me out

We rarely kiss

She says she wants to be with me

Plans our Christmas and future events

Have only been together 15 months

I feel like she doesn't even like me sometimes. Today I feel particularly angry and fed up like I am wasting my time.

I don't want to shout at her, I feel uncomfortable at the thought of sitting down and talking about this. I dont know why, embarassed maybe?

She has all of a sudden deleted her Facebook which I find odd. Never given me any reason to believe she is cheating.

Although she does stay up late some nights and receives late night texts overlooked her shoulder once and it was her best friend

I don't want to be that person who looks through her phone. I guess I am just feeling pissed off right now

Unhappy but at the same time too scared to leave. I love my home and I love her

Planning christmas events is not a negative, its more me saying "if she doesn't want to be with me then why woudl she speak so entusiastically about xmas plans with me"

BTW we have no children

I feel uncomfortable at the thought of sitting down and talking about this.

Then you'll never know. We don't know her, or you, so aside from proposing vague hypotheses we can't really tell you whether you've been unreasonable or not...

You absolutely have to talk to her about this, and share what you've written above.

You can't let your relationship wither and die because of 'embarrassment'! Ok, maybe you're afraid of what you may hear, but surely that is better than this miserable situation?

I guess so

How DO you ask why your partner doesn't seem to want to have sex with you anymore?!

You're only 15 months in, do you want yo live the rest of your life never communicating??

Wait till she is in a warm, happy mood. Sit her down and say you need to talk.

"I'm concerned about our sex life, please talk to me about how you are feeling. I can go first if you like? I love you and want you to talk to me about how you are feeling, and I want to talk to you about how I am feeling too."

You need to sit down and discuss this. Give a decent amount of time to work on the relationship say two months and if you are still unhappy and ill matched then i think you need to call it a day. As it is you are rarely intimate and you have been together for such a short time with no ties then sometimes its best to cut both your losses.

You have to talk to her op. Your relationship isn't that old so having incompatibility issues so great is an issue.