It is making my head spin just thinking about it and I just don't know where to start. My car is 9 years old and, since having a new engine 2 yrs ago when the cam belt went, it seems to be one thing after another. I must have spent about 3k since then, and even before it was always a few hundred at MOT time. Now it keeps overheating and I just want rid. I commute 16 miles a day up the M1 and have been rescued twice in the last month - I've had enough.
We bought it outright, so no loan repayments and that is one thing that scares me about getting a new one as it feels scary to add another monthly commitment, yet I know my credit cards would be a lot lighter right now were it not for this useless car.
I have had so much conflicting advice. For example, you are bound to get a dud unless you pay 2k/3k/5k/7k - delete according to whoever is speaking at the time. I have worked out I can afford 5k max - is that going to get me something no better than I already have? How on earth can I know before it is too late?
As for whether to get a loan or use the car people's finance - np clue, and the more I google, the less I feel I know.
And what is this about haggling??? How can I haggle effectively when I've never done it before and I'm sure it will be clear I have no clue what I'm talking about?
I suppose I'm struggling because it is the first time I have ever had to do anything like this before, and, having recently split from H, it is the first big decision to make without him. I really need to grow up and do it, though - the stress of having an unreliable car is not helping my state of mind atm. Just feel I'm doomed and will make a rubbish decision... Help!