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to be pissed off with my dh over an ecig

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anyoldname76 · 04/10/2014 07:29

Both me and dh have given up smoking using ecigs, its been about 3 weeks now.
Anyway yesterday he bought some ecig liquid home that he had been given, its tobacco flavour. I told him I didn't want it in mine.

Ive got up this morning and he's put the tobacco liquid in mine. I feel so annoyed.
He's only done it to see what its like and didn't want try it in his.

Would I be unreasonable to empty his of peppermint and put tobacco in his.

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3pigsinblanketsandasausagerole · 04/10/2014 07:30

Do it you will feel much better

anyoldname76 · 04/10/2014 07:33

I think I will. Ive emptied the tobacco flavour out of mine but you can still taste it (irrationally angry emoticon)

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OwlWearingSunglasses · 04/10/2014 07:38

I would be angry too. Is he hoping that it will tempt you into smoking again?

If he wants to try it then it goes into his not yours.

ineedausername · 04/10/2014 07:38

Give the whole tank a good scrub out and put a fresh coil in. Then hide your ecig everynight!
I do not like tobacco flavour!
You should come join all us vapers in the stop smoking section :)
Well done fr quitting, 4 months in with an ecig here!

anyoldname76 · 04/10/2014 07:48

I don't think you can take the coil out of this one, I may have to buy a new tank. I'll pop over to the stop smoking topic. I'm still confused about tanks and batteries and what I can swap about. Well done to you Ineedausername, I tried with patches last year but struggled, I love my ecig Smile

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ineedausername · 04/10/2014 07:50

Definitely come over, and give us a link to your kit or a photo and there are lots of lovely ladies who can advise :) in the meantime, I highly recommend having a look at triphammer ejuices, bloody lovely :)

2minsofyourtime · 04/10/2014 08:12

What don't you have jus ecig? And he can have the tobacco one.

magimedi · 04/10/2014 08:16

anyold come over here:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/stop_smoking/2061349-General-chat-for-vaping-vipers?msgid=49882139

and feel free to ask any questions you like. We've all been there with the confusion over tanks, batteries etc - it's a real minefield finding the right kit.

Well done on giving up!

anyoldname76 · 04/10/2014 08:18

Mine seems to vape better, plus it looks nicer and its mine!! It probably sounds crazy but ive grown really attached to it Grin

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InThisTogether · 04/10/2014 09:06

it's natural to be annoyed because you have given up for 3 weeks,but try to remember that things seem much bigger when you are in the process of withdrawral from nicotine. it's a little annoying I agree but it's ok, and it WILL get easier. Good luck, it's hard but you can do it!

Calloh · 04/10/2014 09:10

That is very, very annoying of him. You are not being unreasonable to be pissed off and not unreasonable to put the tobacco stuff in his

SaucyJack · 04/10/2014 09:29

So he's chosen to spoil your property, rather than risk spoiling his own?

YANBU at all. He sounds like a complete prick actually.

anyoldname76 · 04/10/2014 10:08

If I say anything to him saucyJack it will be turned around on me, these last few weeks if ive said anything he doesn't like he's shouted and told me to have a fag as I'm 'obviously' not coping. I think I'm doing really well tbh.

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raltheraffe · 04/10/2014 10:34

Tobacco e liquid is vile. Tried it once and it lingered around for weeks, even though I kept washing the tank out and putting strong mint in.
If both your e-cigs look similar he may have got them mixed up and thought he was filling his.

PlentyOfPubeGardens · 04/10/2014 10:34

Have you ever tried bacon flavour? I'd recommend trying it in his a spare tank .

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ScarlettlovesRhett · 04/10/2014 10:39

It sounds like he's struggling more than you. Are you sure he's not relapsed and is subtly trying to get you to as well?

Me and my husband switched to ecigs last December, his mood etc changed dramatically a few months later and it turned out he'd started smoking again; once I found out I was cross, but just said "oh well, it was bound to happen to one of us, just start over" so he did and he stopped being a twat immediately.

Ask him outright if he's relapsed, with no judgement - it might explain his sabotage attempts!

Apart from that, well done for stopping - I barely use my e cig now, can go for weeks without thinking about it, I never imagined I would be a proper non-smoker. E cigs are amazing! (the stop smoking board is too, all the vapers have loads of good advice).

magimedi · 04/10/2014 13:12

Love that clip, Plenty!

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