Quick poll - to want to give all ExDp's crap to charity?

[lordStrange]

Really, genuine question. He left 6 months ago for OW. Now living with her in her house. He has left tons of books and CDs, literally whole floor to ceiling bookcases full of his things.

Now I want it all gone.

I made a start clearing out some stuff I'd shoved on top of the bookcase (no room on actual shelves) so made several bags - those Sainsbos elephant carry bag ones so big- of books etc . He won't take them. End of. But he insists I can't get rid of his things.

I admit I will feel shitty doing it. AIBU?

I gave all exH's stuff to his best friend. Best Friend's DW made sure he was aware of this