Sorry Molly for my late reply, have only just caught up with thread.
My rule of thumb for teachers? Seek advice, don't expect training courses to have all the answers, do your research starting with googling the Autistic Society. Read up on the subject. But most importantly, talk to the parents.
I would expect the teachers in my team to spend more time with parents of any child with SN giving feedback and crucially, listening to the parents. The parents may not know the best strategies for class based but they know their child best.
But I'm sad to say that my school is a bit different. We've just been awarded our Inclusion Quality Mark and parents in the community know that we include every child. And we work damn hard for them. It should be the same in every school, but sadly it is not. There are teachers, and crucially Headteachers who are driven purely by results. They see any child with SEN as a potential dip in their results.
But, I do see a big problem looming on the horizon. As more and more parents choose our school because we have a good reputation with children with ASD, we may well reach our limit. There is only so much we can do. I have a dream. i want to get funding to build a "base" within the school grounds for SALT, OT, play therapy, a specialist teacher, a quiet zone, sensory garden. A place where ASD can have the best of both worlds. Appropriate, indiviually tailored support and therapy in a mainstream setting. Fingers crossed but I know we will have a fight on our hands.
What drives me in my quest? You've probably guessed I have personal experience of ASD. My sister is on the spectrum so it's all I've ever known.