My ds aged 3 started nursery 2 weeks ago. One of the tas has a very aggressive tone to her voice which has been commented on by several parents who jokingly call her miss nasty. On Tuesday my son rode his scooter to school and we were stood in the enclosed school play ground waiting to go in when this teacher banged three times on the window and wagged her finger whilst shouting 'no scooting in the playground'. The noise made everyone waiting just and my ds was mortified. We all commented how surely it would have been more appropriate for her to simply say to me no scooters in a more friendly manner. This rule by the way must be specifically to nursery class as many children in the bigger play ground has them. Being asked to not bring scooter isn't an issue at all, now we have been told it won't happen again but it is more then we in which I was told I found quite unnecessary. There is nothing about scooters in the welcome to nursery handbook btw so not a rule that I have been informed off prior.
So that happened yesterday morning which annoyed me THEN yesterday afternoon I arrived to collect me child fifteen minutes early as arranged previously. When I walked round the corner into the enclosed nursery playground there was a little boy sat on the wet floor (it had been raining) and looking upset, I asked him if he was okay and he burst into tears. I walked further on towards the door to see the ta glaring at me, I asked her 'do you know there is an upset little boy out here?' She replied in an extremely aggressive and snotty tone, 'yes of course I am aware! That is why I am stood here on sight of the boy with the door open!' I replied okay that's fine although there is really no need to take such an aggressive tone with me'
I then collected my child and left. Aibu or is her attitude very off and should a 3 year old child really be left to cry outside in the wet? If that was my ds I would be furious