Ex bf and I split a few months ago after I found out he'd cheated on me so was, understandably, very upset. Ex's boss just happened to be a mutual friend of ours so in the days that followed our split he started messaging me in the evening (he finished work quite late, 10/11ish), asking how I was doing, how I was coping etc.
It started off just normal conversation, bit of bitching about ex and the girl he left me for but eventually the conversation started to turn..a bit weird?
For example, I would say something about being cold and he would say something like 'I could come up there and warm you up if you like' and so on. It got progressively more flirty and in my state of mind at the time I didn't really pay much attention, I just ignored it and kept chatting about random stuff but as time went on I noticed the flirty stuff getting worse? He also then started making comments like 'I could come round after work and help you get to sleep' when I mentioned I was having trouble sleeping, stuff like that.
When the 'mist' had lifted a bit I started to feel uncomfortable with it, especially since was very recently married! I actually went to his wedding! I started to feel really awkward about it as I couldn't tell if he was being serious or just jokey and flirty. Either way I didn't feel it was appropriate for him to be talking to me that way when he was married so after that I cut our contact down and eventually stopped altogether.
So wibu to think this WU? Was it all just a joke and I was being too sensitive/thinking too much of myself? I wouldn't have been happy if my husband was saying some of the stuff he was saying to me but maybe I just can't take a joke?!