I’m trying to work out if DH and I are being U or just rather foolish.
DH was recently made redundant. So far he’s not signed on, and currently has no intention of doing so. We know that because I earn relatively good money and we have some savings we won’t get any money from them. He also signed on for a few months two and a half years ago, while we were separated (and as such didn’t have my income), and found it a nightmarish experience – the job centre insisted he apply constantly for jobs which were totally inappropriate, and then when he got an interview for a really good job in the industry he normally works in, they told him he’d be sanctioned if he went to it because it clashed with something else they had set up. He ignored them and went to the interview (and got the job) but they afterwards sent him a really mean spirited letter saying that although they couldn’t do anything to him because he’d now signed off, he had been sanctioned and this might affect him being able to claim benefits in the future.
As such, he’s really reluctant to go back and thinks he’d be better off just writing the whole thing off. I think this means he’ll have a gap in his pension contributions but I’m not sure how much of a disaster this is – hopefully it won’t be for long. Is there any other reason why he should be signing on? Would he even be able to sign on with this old sanction still hanging?
I’m aware of friends of mine who have signed on, despite not getting any money for it, and I have this feeling there’s something we’re missing.