Today we are due to be meeting my husbands family at a children's play area.
I have woken in crippling menstrual pain, it really really hurts and I've been on the sofa with a hot water bottle and paracetamol since 6 am when it woke me (and then subsequently my dd) .. H slept in.
I quite honestly have no motivation to go out today. I just want to shower, get in some fresh pajamas and be left alone.
I have told H to take our dd on his own. - and he's really laying on the guilt trip. because I happened to be poorly on another family park meeting 6 odd months ago, plenty of which have happened since and I've been to all, so it's not like I flake out or avoid them.
am I really being unreasonable to expect him to go alone and for everyone to understand that I'm not feeling well enough to come along? dd is dressed, fed, ready to go.. oh and I shopped, bought and wrapped the present for her cousin (whose birthday was last week but haven't gotten present to then yet)
H has rolled out of bed, eaten a bacon sarnie and is now working out for an hour before presumably getting a shower and sorting himself out.
I'm feeling narked that I have to justify myself. surly as an adult I can decide not to bloody go somewhere, especially if I don't feel like I can do much more than shower that day.
