I have no idea what I've done to these women, but as of tonight I think I'm officially done with them. I was the last to give birth and at first it all seemed fine. But then no one came to DS's christening. Or her first birthday party. The second birthdays all seemed small quiet affairs (us too) but now that we are on year three, in the thick of it, the only one we've been invited to was the one where we sent an early "save the date" and I think she felt guilty. Clearly no one else did - joint birthday party held today for two of them to which we were not invited. I went back to work earlier than almost all of them, but did my best to keep up but no, from the get go.
Why are they being like this? Why do I even care? I have plenty of other friends. I suspect it was because we were told in our first class how it would all be asking each other for advice until they were at uni and beyond but nope - just dropped by the clique and they've just closed ranks.