Only one not invited to wedding

[Jashley398]

A couple at my church that I thought were my friends recently had a wedding and when I saw the pictures on Facebook it looked like I was the only one not invited. I even saw this a pic of this girl that they just met three weeks ago that just started coming to my church at the wedding. Did they really invite someone they had just met three weeks before their wedding to their wedding and not me? I have been going there a year. Also, I saw that they just added this person on Facebook three weeks ago.

You say that this sort of thing is a regular occurrence. Tbh, you do sound a little paranoid. Maybe you don't mean to, but you may come across as pushy.

It might be time to evaluate your life a little, look more closely at your anxiety and insecurities, work on your confidence a bit.

The problem can't always be other people.

Do you know for sure that absolutely everyone in the church was definitely invited, or was it rather that it felt (to you) that most people had been invited?

Were the people who blocked you, some of your facebook friends? I think that would hurt my feelings, if the couple were my friends, and we did socialize outside of church. Plus the blocking you on facebook is strange, if they are friends. Did you do something that they are against, and they are shunning you?

Either way, why not move on to a entirely new church. I don't think those people in your current church are for you. Sometimes it takes trying a few out before you find the one that fits.
And, you could ask your pastor to give you counseling as how to improve your people skills. (If you want to make sure of things)

Whatever you do, don't let on it bothers you, stay casual, just smile and be pleasant, but don't talk any more than you have to. Let them think their blocking working. You know the truth now. Let that friendship go. There are betters ones out there. You'll be ok!

musical I was about to ask the same thing!!

have reported the poster as the word we can't use as this thread has been on and deleted from several forums cos it is a load of rubbish.

don't invest yourselves peeps

You really want answers don't you op? What was the bodybuilder's take on it btw?

If you post it in enough places, the people might identify you and tell you themselves. Job done!