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aibu for judging a man to be a total dick.

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Vintagecrap · 12/09/2014 05:41

The back story is that we swapped two or three emails back in jan/ Feb time this year, on a dating site. Just a ' hi, how are you' , ' great thanks, you' type thing. I realised I recognised him, he was the ex of my new neighbour. So told him that and that it wasn't appropriate. I hadn't liked him anyway and it has been only 2 emails swapped.

He got cross at that and sent a rant about it and then ranted to his ex about how she had messed things up with me. There wasn't anything to mess up, literally two messages where I was just being polite.

Any how, for a little while he kept trying to get his daughter to spy on me, when my neighbour found out she read him the riot act.

Yesterday an email from him arrived in my neighbours inbox. She forwarded it on to me. It said he had finally seen me, and JESUS I was massive. So fat I looked like I've eaten all the pies and more and that he's very glad I turned him down.

I am staggered, I've never so much as spoken to him, nothing. My neighbour is aghast. I don't know why he think he has the right to comment. Or why he would email this to tell someone.

He is a total dick, isn't he.

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Vintagecrap · 12/09/2014 15:51

It is all from months ago.

Im a bit sidewinded by it all, and actually think ive just been pulled into their drama just because.

Not nice for me but im staying well out of it.

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