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To wonder why so few parents walk their kids to and from school these days?

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JellyDiamonds · 11/09/2014 20:02

This evening I had to quickly pop into town and my route takes me down a side street where there's a large old Victorian primary school with a smallish car park that's for teachers only. It was 3.15, and despite the fact that it was absolutely glorious, warm and sunny, I couldn't get over just how many parents had driven to collect their kids from the school.

It was absolute chaos, cars double parked, parked on corners, parked at strange angles, blocking entrances to a business and even blocking the entrance to the school itself. I felt so sorry for the people who live there, most of the houses are terraces with no off street parking at all. It made me think, I was rarely picked up or dropped off by car. I always walked, even in the rain. When I got to secondary school I got the bus as it was further away. The only time my parents even picked me up by car was if we were going somewhere straight from school, which was so rare.

Surely most children live within walking distance of their primary school? And on a gorgeous late summers evening there is surely no excuse for such laziness? We have all legs don't we? Why don't we use them more often? I don't understand it...

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Andrewofgg · 12/09/2014 17:18

MrSheen Using the electric whisk and the remote control does not impact on others like blocking the road does!

3stripesandout · 12/09/2014 17:20

Because we live 5 miles away from their school and couldn't get them into the village school because of stupid house prices in the 0.5 mile catchment area (which change hands as soon as the PFB is safely ensconced in reception)

MrSheen · 12/09/2014 17:36

Andrewofgg using resources that I don't need impacts on everyone. It just suits us to pretend our decision to use shit loads of electricity or buy some cheap socks made in Rana Plaza rather than darning the old ones is an entirely personal decision without any ripples. Everyone who uses a car 'blocks up the road'. It's kind of what the roads are for, getting from A to B to C. It's a bit annoying that the school run is under constant scrutiny whereas the manly work commute or going to the pictures or for a round of golf isn't. If by 'blocking the road' you don't mean perfectly legitimate driving but mean inconsiderate or illegal parking then you may have a point but the idea that everyone who is on the road without a child is doing something important and couldn't walk or use public transport is bollocks.

KatieKaye · 12/09/2014 18:06

Blocking the road is indeed a feature of parents on the school run, or at least those I see driving less than 800 metres to go into a residential street and then park in considerately and drive dangerously. And it is more than a bit annoying when parents deliberately block your drive and run over your cat.

Andrewofgg · 12/09/2014 19:15

MrSheen You are right; but it's a question of degree. We read upthread of the life lost because an ambulance could not get through; that is an extreme case but blocking the roads so that other drivers cannot pass and must belch out more fumes is more harmful than pressing the button on the remote!

Anywhere, where do you stop? Television uses shit loads of electricity and is not an essential of life. Nor are the machines on which I am typing this and you are reading it, not in homes in any case.

But in practice OP is living in cloud-cuckoo land if she thinks everyone can get their DCs to school without driving. That is how the world has developed.

fromparistoberlin73 · 12/09/2014 22:33

Op has annoyed a few but I do see some people drive who I know are five minutes away !! There are SOME lazy people out there ya know ! Not me obvs, I get train

MsBrunette · 12/09/2014 22:37

There is also a thread in chat, same OP, same motive trying to antagonise people.

RedSoloCup · 12/09/2014 22:41

We walk a lot but time constraints don't always allow for it with my work and clubs etc....

fromparistoberlin73 · 12/09/2014 22:41

She succeeded !!!

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