To want the hospital to make their bloody mind up?

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A relative has cancer. There are two choices for treatment- chemo and operation. Or rather, she will need both, the question is, which one should they do first? The hospital have changed their minds no less than 5 times about which one they will go with. As my relative says 'I don't care what they do any more, just get me some treatment!'

Thanks Ninja, but like I said they're not sure if they can operate first ie not sure she'd survive an op. So I know there's a good reason for all the faffing, but at the end of the day if they can't operate or they're not sure, just fucking tell us and get chemo started already!