Your comment made me laugh. But in a nice way....

[Noseypoke]

Is intended to be patronising, or AIBU?

Yabu, you're overthinking it.

YABU, its like laughing in a nice way and not laughing at you coz you're a twat. like funny haha or funny peculiar.

Sometimes I say the most bizar things, DH has started calling them Waywards quote of the week or if I'm having a particularly good week he gets quotes of the day :-)

It's all part of the fun he gets living with someone who doesn't always fully engage their brain before speaking

No! In fact, quite the opposite!

YABU.

It means exactly what it says. In a nice way, as opposed to laughing at in a scornful way.

Not at all patronising.

I'd say affectionate rather than patronising, but it does depend on who said it to whom and how.

In a personal context yabu but if this was said to me at work I would find it patronising. What was the context?

I nearly posted that about a comment yesterday... one that had me nearly waking the children as I snorted so loudly. so no not always patronising.

If verbally, you would know from the tone of voice etc.