To ask if you've had marriage counselling?

[marmaladeandchickens]

I feel like I should try everything before calling time on my marriage but just the same I really don't want to be married any more (just staying for the children at the moment) so I don't know if it's any use.

Any thoughts?

Marmalade and chicken is sound like you know what you want to do.

Divorce does not mean damage to children. It will have an impact on their lives but so will seeing their parents being unhappy and spending so much time with a controlling father.