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(Declan Hainey case - upsetting content) to think that drug addicts, even if apparently recovered, should have their children monitored?

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ReputableBiscuit · 06/09/2014 08:03

his mum was a known drug user and drinker who had mental health issues and isolated herself: surely her baby should have been intensively checked?

www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/declan-hainey-fai-finds-toddlers-4170688

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Redtartanshoes · 06/09/2014 08:20

That article blames everyone else for that poor wee boys death other than the 1 person who is completely accountable. IMO she should not have had a conviction quashed

ReputableBiscuit · 06/09/2014 10:00

Kimberley Hainey was a bad mother, either deliberately or as a consequence of her issues. Her issues predisposed her to be a neglectful parent - so why was she left unchecked for so long? Funding?

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Alisvolatpropiis · 06/09/2014 10:08

Yanbu

aprilanne · 06/09/2014 11:00

how the heck could she have got off with murder .she let the baby die then let him rot for 4 months .animals would,nt do that never mind humans .she should have served her sentence .and drug addicts should always be monitored .because drugs always come first .

ReputableBiscuit · 06/09/2014 11:22

I think either the degree of expertise of witnesses had been mis-described to the court, or their evidence about Declan's body was called into doubt. Basically there was a cock-up in the presentation of the case that led to the original verdict being overturned. I imagine Kimberly Hainey is leading a miserable, ill, addicted, despised existence out of prison, and will probably not live a long life, so I can't feel any anger that she's not locked up.

Declan's case seems very like that of Hamzah Khan but also very different. Both were tragically neglected boys with absent dads and addicted mothers who died, and mummified, in their cots, surrounded by utter filth. But whereas in Hamzah's case, he had been forgotten entirely by the authorities, in Declan's lots of people were meant to be supervising his mother and himself, but didn't do so with enough concertedness or frequency. I wonder if this stems from a failure in the system, or from underfunding and understaffing?

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