Ok, my first venture into aibu so may regret this when it isn't three am but I'm so pissed off right now.
I will say normally I love my dss to bits and I've been in his life for 12 years and his mum is a good friend of mine but here goes.
Dss is 16 and goes to college next week. His gf lives quite close to us and his mums is about 5 miles away. He prefers to stay at ours as it means he can leave the gf's about fifteen precious mins later and still make it in for around 10.
Sundays are normally his mums night, he asks if he can stay here, no problem but we tell him not to be on Xbox all night keeping us awake, were up at 6 and still have a non sleeping through 18 month old. We go to bed around 10 leaving him to do whatever down stairs. Four times hes woken us by shouting/swearing at his mates on the Xbox through online. . I tell him three times at 11,12 and 1 to be quiet. At two am dh goes down and really has a go, telling him to get off Xbox. Argument then creates waking 18 month old.
Aibu to say no Internet after 10pm on our work nights. He will go nuts but I'm so fed up of it.
Other thing this bugging me, through normal conversation with dss mum this eve, found out she's working away all week. Dss will now assume (and dss mum) that he's fine to stay here. If it was planned no issue, but I've shopped for food for the week taking into account him staying three times not five or six. I just find it a bit rude that no one bothers to check so would ibu to say nope, back to your mums (his step dad is there).
Final gripe, his bike tyre is flat, dh asked him to pick up puncture repair kit in town ( the one he's near every single day as his gf lives next to it) he hasn't and this meas he can't bike back to his mums, aibu to say tough luck, pick up a repair kit today otherwise you walk back.
I'm so grumpy right now. And have to be up in less than three hours. Also any tips for managing teenagers that just threaten to move in/stay with gf if we carry out number one of removing Internet much appreciated.