To think I had a right to be a bit pissed off here regarding DS's son?

[Panscrubby]

Ok loads of other issues going on between DP and I at the moment but this latest incident has just got me asking is it me or what? Basically this morning we went to shop and bought a pack of 6 bananas. I needed them for cooking. DP knew this.

We got home at 1pm. I've just gone to start my baking to find only two bananas in the bag. I ask DP "where are the bananas??" and he replies "oh DS must have eaten them". What, 4 bananas is the space of 3 hours??? and since DP knew I needed them for cooking for the fuck didn't he stop him?

Now this wouldn't normally work me into a rage but DP is constantly whinging about my son eating all the biscuits, drinking all the pepsi, eating more than his fair share of things yet his son is a million times worse and if I dare mention it I get a backlash of evil stepmother, selfish bitch, control freak, picking arguments - no - I would just have thought that a bag of bananas could survive 3 hours in the kitchen. If it had been my lad, he'd have gone fucking nuts.

Just one more thing in a list of things wrong with this shitty so called relationship.

Just realised my post might not be clear, I am talking about your DP who sounds like a twat, it would be HIM out on his arse.

I think it's pretty disgusting of both of you really to be bitching about kids eating! A banana and biscuits ffs. Do people really sit and count and keep a tally of what each other owes. I know it's not about the bloody bananas but what a petty thing to complain about.

Why are you allowing a two tier system where your DS is shouted at by your DP for stuff that his son gets away with? Put your children first and dump him.

The word banana is starting to look odd and slightly unreal.

I think you are been a tad UR. If things were better you'd barely give it a second thought after the initial annoyance, but it's clearly symbolising something else much more significant to you.

I haven't read your other thread but maybe you need to really start thinking about how to change things to make yourself happier.