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Re baby swimming lessons

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Mrsjinglejangle · 26/08/2014 08:17

Posted here as I know I will get honest answers and possibly a telling off in not sure.
Dd is 18 months and never been swimming or had lessons is she very deprived?! Feeling guilty she hasn't been mainly for 2 reasons firstly I cant swim and am slighty scared of water (partner also doesn't swim!).
secondly (think this is where I'll get bashed) I hate my body and the thought if getting into a swimming costume feels me with dread even after losing 5 stone last year.
Will it matter if she doesn't go until a bit older or am I terrible for not having taken her so far?

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Strokethefurrywall · 26/08/2014 18:40

It really isn't necessary at such an early age unless from a safety aspect. Swimming should be about fun, first and foremost! We live in a hot climate, have a pool and our small island is surrounded by water so from my point of view, it was essential that we got DS1 swimming, or at least not drowning from an early age.

But I still didn't do actual kiddie lessons with him until he was 2 years, prior to that we splashed around, went under water and just got him comfortable.

He's 3 at the end of next month and can now swim unaided (no floats or armbands) and can dive and collect toys from the bottom of the pool, but this is far more to do with the amount of time he's exposed to the water than just the lessons. It is now instinctive for him to jump in and automatically swim to the side and that was the only thing I wanted to accomplish.

I was a very good swimmer as a child, but we didn't start swimming lessons until we were about 5 years.

DS1 won't start learning actual strokes for another year as he doesn't have the attention span. DS2 is 5 months and I just take him in the pool in his floaty. He loves to kick his little legs but the same comfort with water can be achieved at an early age with taking them in the shower and letting the water run over their face and from splashing at bath time.

Congratulations on your weight loss, that's incredible!

Tikimon · 26/08/2014 18:58

I don't think children actually learn how to swim until they're about 5 though. Until then it seems they just play on kick boards and dunk their heads under water. Swim lessons are a good investment, or you could teach them yourself. Personally, I live in a land locked area (USA) with a small swim culture. So DD will probably learn how to rock climb or camp before she learns how to swim.

butterfliesinmytummy · 26/08/2014 19:04

Of course kids can swim before they're 5. My dd2 was doing 25m before she was 3. I have taught plenty of under 5s to swim effectively and several have recognizable strokes before then.

Buttercup27 · 26/08/2014 19:06

Ds1 has had swimming lessons since he was 6 months old. He is now 2 and has so much confidence . He can also jump into the pool , turn underwater and get to the surface and side of the pool quickly. His brother started at 4 months and is progressing really well.
We use puddle ducks, in a shallow, hydro pool so it is very warm.
I really like puddle ducks ethos which teaches safety in/around water and confidence.
Personally I think it's really important for children to learn to be safe by the pool. If I were you I would take lessons and build up my own confidence so you don't pass your fears onto you lo.

museumum · 26/08/2014 20:22

Lots of people seem to be missing that the OP cannot swim and has very low water confidence. She can't "just teach her yourself". It's probably tougher / more daunting for a non swimmer to take a baby or toddler yourself than it is to go to a structured class with a qualified teacher telling you what to do, guiding your progress and watching out for safety.

Purplepoodle · 26/08/2014 21:44

Poor ds2 did to get into the pool until he was nearly 3. He was very nervous at first but his swimming teacher is fab. He is on his 5th lesson now and loving it after a shakey start. Best bit is that I can watch from the poolside

Aliceismagic1 · 27/08/2014 00:02

Was very keen to get DC to swimming and DH and I have taken them to the pool since they were very little (8 weeks I think Hmm ) just to get them used to splashing in the water - DSs are now 5 and extremely good swimmers for their age, 19 month old daughter attends those special mum + kiddie lessons with me and she's learning to blow bubbles, float (with my support) and move her arms correctly- deffo recommend however it's not really necessary until they're a little bit older if you're really dreading it! Don't let body image be the thing to put you off though, maybe if you get her started off young she won't have the same worries around water as you do!

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