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AIBU to expect changing rooms in M&S kidswear?

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nicola101 · 16/08/2014 16:13

I went to my local (Nottingham) M&S store today to buy school uniform for my son (with him and 3 year old daughter in tow). The kidswear is located on the lower ground floor next to the food (odd in itself - used to be on the first floor). I chose to go into the store as I knew he'd need to try things on and we needed to go to Clarks for shoes and I thought it would be easier than to buy online and do returns. How wrong i was! Firstly they were pretty much out of size 7-8 in grey school trousers but I managed to find 3 styles to try on plus PE shorts, then when I looked for the changing rooms I was told I would have to go to the first floor! Remember I'm on the lower ground and to get to the first floor I would have had to walk through the food, go up an escalator, walk through ladies wear either to get to another escalator to the first floor and across lingerie to get to the first floor changing or across ladieswear in another direction to get to the ground floor changing rooms. I challenged the staff member and he said they had complained but to no avail. So, we ended up hiding in a corner to try things on. On my way out I saw 4 members of 'management' and I asked them why there were no changing rooms - I was told that specific kids changing rooms had been removed as a business initiative as an 'incident' had taken place in a different store and therefore all changing rooms had been removed. The actions of one affecting the majority - surely it's worse that I had to undress my son on the shop floor (obviously my liability!). The staff were very apologetic and said they were campaigning as their store layout was unique in not having any changing rooms on the floor - I suspect there are many people in head office wondering why people are going to John Lewis instead, well I'll add this to the many reasons why I do normally and will do next time! (And worse still, I was so stressed I forgot to use my 20% off voucher!)

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LittleG69 · 16/08/2014 17:03

clothing

PureMorning · 16/08/2014 17:05

There are accessible changing rooms. Up an escalator.

Can kids really not cope with walking across a shop floor to try things on? It would take less than five mins at a snails pace.

dawnlight · 16/08/2014 17:05

Yes Northlight that would do it.

Nice name btw Wink

Sirzy · 16/08/2014 17:08

Given most people don't bother trying clothes on children they probably, and understandbly, see it as a waste of space to have changing rooms which won't be used. Especially if it's a smaller store with limited space anyway

MrsBoldon · 16/08/2014 17:09

You've made crossing a small clothing store and going up an escalator sound like crossing the Andes!.

morethanpotatoprints · 16/08/2014 17:10

your own fault for going to M&S Grin.
Try BHS Debenhams much better quality and more material for your money anyway.

dawnlight · 16/08/2014 17:10

Would the majority of adults be happy if they had to always travel up or down at least 1 floor to use the changing rooms.

Bearing in mind the lifts in M&S are small and slow and the escalators are routed to make you walk the long way round.

Sirzy · 16/08/2014 17:12

I couldn't care less if I had to go upstairs. Its hardly tough.

And most M and S stores I use actually have perfectly accpetable lifts, infact one it is probably the most spacious lift I have seen in a shop.

I really can't see why this is an issue, other than the fact people like to have something to complain about!

JoanBakersShopCake · 16/08/2014 17:14

Buy online then and return the ones you don't want to the store?

HappyAgainOneDay · 16/08/2014 17:15

I ordered a dress on line from John Lewis (click and collect because it was end of range). I hadn't done Click and Collect before so I went to the Women's Department on the first floor (across the ground floor and then via escalator and across the first floor) only to find that Collection was a floor below. I recrossed the floor, went down the escalator and collected my frock dress which I wanted to try on. I was told that I had to use the upward escalator and cross the floor to the changing rooms. I liked the dress so took it home.

I was rather miffed at the half mile (in total) I had to travel but I didn't have any children in tow - presumably the OP was also with other shopping and possibly a pushchair. I do see her point of view because she was picking up and looking at items of clothing which meant that her DCs were probably wandering about in the vicinity, bored to tears. Dragging them around would not have been a pleasurable outing for me.

One incident somewhere changed the whole way of thinking at M&S! I thought that at least one member of staff was on duty at each group of changing rooms.

MrsBoldon · 16/08/2014 17:16

No I wouldn't mind having to go to another floor for changing rooms!. At its absolute worst it's an extremely minor inconvenience.

JudysPriest · 16/08/2014 17:20

When walking across a store and taking an escalator is such a huge chore the need for 50 inch waist school trousers doesn't seem such a phenomenon.

Cadsuane · 16/08/2014 17:24

YANBU.
Your lucky holding against your child works. DD2 has to try everything on. Her back really curves in at her waist so many clothes which should fit don't. On pair of jeans she tried on last week she could only just button at the front but I could fit both fists into the gap at the back. Another pair were too narrow at the ankle for her to get her her wide feet through. Everything including blouses needs to be tried. Often there are restrictions on how much you can take in so if you have two (or more) it can be stressful dragging everyone all over the store.
The year our M&S did this I walked out the store and shopped else where. Now two of our local M&S stores have one or two curtained off changing rooms beside the uniforms and in one of these the main changing room is not that far away.

ShellBeach · 16/08/2014 17:28

As an aside - don't worry about forgetting to use the voucher, if it was the same as the voucher I also had, it can't be used on schoolwear Hmm

deakymom · 16/08/2014 21:23

you try on trousers i just hold them up and know?! (unhelpful but baffled as to why you would "need" try them on)

mommy2ash · 16/08/2014 21:28

I have never seen separate kids changing rooms in any shop. then again I've never tried anything on my dd I just put it up against her

Passmethecrisps · 16/08/2014 21:30

It does sound like a stressful trip but could you not have just taken them home and returned the unnecessary ones? I can't see how making him strip in a corner was better than going up stairs.

I am trying to think of our M&S and I am fairly certain that there is no 'children's changing room'. I think in ours children would need to change in the men's.

gordyslovesheep · 16/08/2014 21:38

we've had this exact same thread before I am sure

anyway - YABU op just use the changing rooms that are available

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