Who takes the spare room?

[mummaduke]

DH and I went out for what should have been a lovely evening tonight.

Unfortunately he can't handle any booze and was vile to me on the way home, stormed upstairs (ignoring my parents who had babysat), and is now snoring blissfully next to me.

I am fucked off beyond words.

Spare room is available, though bed not made. Should I wake him and force him into it or suck it up and take it myself? There's no way I'm going to get any sleep if he keeps snoring like this

Probably just take it yourself, unless you want a massive argument....

Ooh not sure. Would he go it would it restart the nastiness?

Well personally I would go,,to get a good nights sleep.

I'd stay for the next week too...

Theres no way i'd dutifully get up to make up another bed after been woken out of drunken sleep. So i think you'd be best to take the spare if you want any sleep tonight.

But why is he still drinking if he knows hes a bastard when he does? Thats not on.

Make up the spare bed and leave him to it. I can't think of anything worse than sleeping next to a vile, drunk snoring shit.

And he can cook, clean and sort himself out all week to boot.

I would, my spare bed has a better mattress than my own bed and DH at 6ft6 would never fit in it as its a single daybed from ikea. Get yourself an air horn tomorrow when he has a stinking hangover and wake him up with that.

Id be massively fucked off too. Id probably take the spare room just to avoid an argument. What are you gonna say to him tomorrow? Dont pretend it wasnt a big deal whatever you do x

Aye, you take the room, you'd be deliberately kicking something else off waking him up to do it.

What was he saying to you on the way home?

Something he'll be mortified about in the morning? (I hope)

Update, managed to doze off in the same bed - no need to make up the spare. Waiting for him to wake up to see of he remembers any of it. I'll be reminding him if he doesn't, don't worry.

He basically couldn't keep his eyes open on the night bus - he essentially had me pinned against the window because he couldn't stay upright. Mildly amusing at first but then I wanted it to stop. All I did was tell him this, and possibly make a comment about him being too drunk (as he had been for most of the evening).

I hope he apologies & does somthingt to make it up to you.