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To want to shout from the roof tops how evil the mirena coil is!!!

142 replies

RunRunRun123 · 08/08/2014 08:39

I know there have been 1000s of posts about this and widely discussed, but I am genuinely shocked by the difference since I had my mirena coil removed and just needed to share. When I had it put in Dr assured me little to no side effects. At the time we were going through a bit of a stressful situation but I have always been a strong coper and was fine. Then within about a few weeks my moods started to spiral. I would feel anxious, panicky, burst into tears etc. I went back to dr was told no way was it the coil I was obviously just very stressed. Having two young children, they were assumed the cause. My parenting changed, I went from positive gentle parenting to struggling to control shouting and angry outbursts. In a fit of happiness I threatened and tried to leave my absolutely wonderful husband and children thinking I was obviously a bad thing for them all, On my husbands request I returned to the GP worried I was having delayed PND, was reassured again about coil and told me they thought I was depressed. But I started to research it all and I didn't think I was depressed as it would come on in cycles, directly linked to ongoing break through bleeding etc. I ended up insisting coil was removed, and pretty much had a row with the GP about that decision! That was 4 weeks ago and my life has transformed! Once again I am calm, happy, confident. I feel I am parenting my children 1000 times better, I am attracted to my husband and our sex life has returned to what it was. I haven't cried or shouted since one week after it was removed (I had a bit of a crash for a week after!). I am really, really genuinely shocked by the profound affects this had and when I researched into it, even more shocked by how common this is! I wish I had done more research prior to having it fitted rather than relying on the GP. I know GP's receive a lot of money for promoting and fitting the coil but I do worry this is at a cost of warning patients that though on on hand it works wonders, it can seriously screw you up on the other!

OP posts:
fourwoodenchairs · 16/10/2014 12:41

I'm sorry you've had a bad time. What else could you try?

I've used the copper coil for years and I really do like it. Never had any problems.

inadarkplace · 16/10/2014 12:45

nothing will work on everyone the same the problem comes in when the doctors insist you need to give it a chance and you have months and months of issues which would stop if you could get the damn things out!

this pill is so much easier if it doesn't agree with you try a different brand

bakingaddict · 16/10/2014 13:03

Look for every available medicine there is a small % who will succumb to side effects, you are obviously one of the unfortunate few who did but just because it didn't suit you is no reason to put fear into other people.

Everybody should read what the associated side effects are when prescribed a new medicine but your GP has no way of knowing if you will succumb to any of them. I suppose if you are a GP then pointing out every possible side effect when prescribing medicine will naturally make patients susceptible to experiencing those symptoms, a bit like a reverse placebo.

DayLillie · 16/10/2014 13:49

cks.nice.org.uk/contraception-iusiud#!scenariorecommendation:14

Apparently, only 60% of women experience amenorrhoea or reduced periods on Mirena. 60% stop using it before 5 years and the biggest reason is bleeding problems.

About 20% of women have some sort of progesterone intolerance.

It is not as perfect as 'sold' (certainly by my GP who said there would be NO periods Hmm. But it might be better than a hysterectomy for bleeding problems, if it works. It depends on what is worse at the time.

RoRoMommy · 20/10/2014 12:59

Hi all - yes I know it is brilliant for some women, and it is important to truly understand the risks / side effects of any medication before using it / having it inserted.

I had mine out this morning - I didn't even feel it coming out, and there was no bleeding. I started to get a migraine about an hour after, but it's possibly not related.

I will report back on whether there has been any improvement in my mood / number of migraines. I had never been so depressed as I was in the last month, it felt like it was getting steadily worse and for the first time I was considering self-harm which was very scary.

Fingers crossed that things will improve :-)

2rebecca · 20/10/2014 13:08

I had no problems with it, no side effects hardly any periods, safe sex

toodledoo678 · 20/10/2014 16:01

Yes contraceptions have side effects and don't agree with everyone, but the majority you can just decide to stop without having to beg. But this, it's different... Whatever happened to my body, my choice?

This is why I won't have one. Anything else that makes you feel ill - you can stop taking straight away and try something else. But it seems as if it can take months of having to ask for it to be removed, before they finally remove it.

RachelAldworth1982 · 07/06/2017 12:45

Yes Mirena is awful. I had mine removed in hospital yesterday under GA after GP and gynaecology failed to retrieve the strings when it was due to come out. I had a quick recovery in hospital but starting to feel crampy now. So glad it's out.

MuchasSmoochas · 07/06/2017 12:52

I am evangelical about mine. Absolutely love it. Couldn't go back. Getting it changed is painful but quick. I had a gin and tonic before they changed the last one which helped Grin

user1496484020 · 07/06/2017 12:54

I had the exact same experience as you. I became suicidal. When it was removed, I was a new woman. Evil thing.

peachgreen · 07/06/2017 13:01

I can't have hormonal contraception - it makes me a miserable zombie - but I felt the same way about the copper coil. Unbelievably heavy bleeding for 10+ days a month, pain that left me breathless and on the floor in agony and my God, the insertion and the hours afterwards were the most painful of my life, and I've had a ruptured ovarian cyst, an infected gallbladder and two bouts of major surgery (no childbirth yet so we'll see how it compares to that, haha). Never again. I was so delighted to have it removed and go back to my normal periods. Couldn't believe how pain-free they were.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 07/06/2017 13:02

ZOMBIE ZOMBIE ZOMBIE

peachgreen · 07/06/2017 13:02

Oh damn, zombie thread.

NorthernLurker · 07/06/2017 13:03

It doesn't matter that it's a zombie thread. It's a very important issue. I've never had a mirena and as I personally know three women who have had ectopic pregnancies with mirena in situ, I would neither have one nor advise others to do so.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 07/06/2017 13:13

So the person could have started a brand new thread...

I'm sure things have changed in the last 3 years Confused

RachelAldworth1982 · 07/06/2017 13:20

Yes it's a zombie thread but very current issue for women in these situations . My GA happened yesterday and this is 2017, women are still going through this .
I feel the more comments on this issue to raise awareness can only be a good thing and save lots of time searching out other similar threads .

TheFreaksShallInheritTheEarth · 07/06/2017 13:28

Not another flipping zombie! How do people even find these old threads?

PaperdollCartoon · 07/06/2017 13:30

Zombie aside - I love mine. Had spots and some tummy paid for a couple of months, now nothing and hardly any periods. I'm very happy.

RachelAldworth1982 · 07/06/2017 13:34

I haven't cane here to leave my experiences to be trolled and slandered for my postings .
No one is obliged to reply to this but please understand that this issue with mirena is ongoing and has been for years . I'm sitting here cramping with a sore throat from the tube that went down my throat in theatre . It's no laughing matter .

TheFreaksShallInheritTheEarth · 07/06/2017 13:38

Who has trolled and slandered you, Rachel?

I'm sorry to hear about your terrible experience with Mirena Flowers

Blobby10 · 07/06/2017 13:41

Oh dear - I'm having one fitted (hopefully!) on 20th June - really hoping it will see me through the menopause and give me a break from really heavy periods for the last few years.

I'm already on low dose AD's and asked the doctor repeatedly about side effects of more depression - she said there wouldnt be any (if it suited me but of course, it doesn't suit everyone!)

Blobby10 · 07/06/2017 13:43

Damn - note to self: either notice dates on first page or check last page for Zombie alerts Angry Blush

TearsOnTheGround · 07/06/2017 13:44

I hated it! I felt a constant bloating all the time, it made me feel miserable, I had headaches and was tearful. I hated the random spotting too.

I had it replaced with a copper coil and it's so far working fine for me. All of the above symptoms went when the Mirena was removed. Now my periods are slightly longer, going from 2/3 days light bleeding to 4/5 days with heavier but manageable bleeding. The cramps are not much different.

Helspopje · 07/06/2017 13:52

I am a haematologist

Mirena transforms the lives of some women with heavy loss.

CamberGirl · 07/06/2017 13:53

First Mirena was great. No problems. Second one has been hell. Headaches, nausea, depression, bloating. On a good note my periods have stopped but that was countered by my sex drive totally disapping within a week. I feel like I'm permanently suffering with PMT.

I know this is a revived thread but I think these issues are fairly important.
I'm currently waiting for an appointment at the hospital to get it out of me.

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