I posted for support and MNHQ banned me

[CentimeCentime]

I'm so sorry to post this, I'm not trying to cause trouble, but I feel like I need to come back after my post (regarding trouble coping after my daughter was stillborn) was banned and I was blocked. I have had to create another account to post.

Apparently I was reported as there were some 'inconsistencies'.

I emailed MNHQ back explaining that I was not some kind of troll or fantasist, but someone genuinely looking for help and that all of the responses had provided me with a lifeline. If there were inconsistencies between that post and previous ones, it is because I naturally changed some details to protect my identity but the story was mine. I provided MN with absolute proof that I am a grieving mother to a stillborn child. I hate that I even had to do that.

MN haven't replied since yesterday morning (I've also emailed Rebecca) and I am just so concerned that some of you who posted and shared your stories with me will feel duped and taken advantage of. I hate that you might think this.

I really don't understand what happened and it has caused me no end of additional distress. I really didn't want to post here, but MN are not replying to my emails.

Thank you so so much to everyone who posted, and the poster who emailed me with the most amazing, thoughtful words that got me through the day.

I hope MNHQ might consider replying to my message. I really want the thread back and I want to save all the responses, as they helped so much.

[ExcuseTypos]

Oh x posted ItIs.

[LittlePeaPod]

come on MNHQ at least respond!

[KateSMumsnet]

Hi everyone - thank you for your reports.

CentimeCentime - we're so sorry we didn't get back to yesterday, that was an oversight on our part and we certainly didn't intend to cause you such distress. We've now reinstated your ability to post, and will be getting in touch to explain what happened

[Pyjamaramadrama]

I believe you op.

MN have done it to me too because of inconsistencies, but naturally you may change minor details such as dc's age for the sake of anonymity.

I'd prefer to see people given the benefit of the doubt rather than risk banning someone who is already in distress.

[Toofattorun]

CentimeCentime, I am so sorry for your loss. You really do not need this of all things whilst your having to deal with the most traumatic and devastating loss.

Thinking of you and your daughter.

[ExcuseTypos]

Centime


I hope you continue to get lots of support from MN posters. Xxx

[LittlePeaPod]

Please do let us know what your other thread was called. I would like to come and post my support.. [flower]

[Aeroflotgirl]

That's good MNHQ

[CentimeCentime]

Thank you everyone, it is lovely that you continued to believe me as to be honest I was expecting a lot of responses, I really was. I thought that once a poster was blocked, it was pretty much a given they had been proven a troll, so why would you believe me.

Thank you MNHQ for responding, too. I wish you could have responded to my three (increasingly distressed) emails sent during the course of yesterday, though

[CentimeCentime]

AEROFLOT my thread
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/a2150293-To-run-away-from-my-family-and-my-grief

[CentimeCentime]

logging off as centime now, au revoir (and there endeth my GCSE French!)

[Alisvolatpropiis]

So glad this turned out to be a misunderstanding. I was quite shocked to see op posting this thread and even more shocked that people reported her original thread!

[Aeroflotgirl]

Thanks centime how are you today

[Aeroflotgirl]

When ds is napping I will read it all properly, but it's not your fault sweetie, it's not and you need help to come to terms with your awful loss and to realise this

[SallyMcgally]

So sorry this has happened to you OP. Last thing you needed. Hope you're getting some support and understanding for your grief

[ImNotThatGirl]

Zombieeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!

[YellowShockedFace]

?

[ImNotThatGirl]

What sort of twatbadger bumps such a sensitive thread?

[ismellSwell]

I hope whoever reported your previous thread feels thoroughly ashamed of themselves.
So sorry for your loss

[LagunaBubbles]

Why would someone do this?? Reported.