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To want to move house !

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Kimberley00001 · 03/08/2014 16:40

I live in a h/a house and have done for 4 years .
I'm early 30s and partner is early 40s
I live there with my partner and daughter who is secondary school age and has asd and slight lds.
The problem is our next door neighbour ,she is in her 60s and lives with her daughter.
She also has a son who as far as I know does not live there but every day with out fail he will sit out side in the front of next doors house often for hours ,no matter what weather .
What usually happens is he will knock on the door asking his mum for money (he is an alcoholic ) and she will usually speak to him for a few minutes telling him she has no money etc then she will slam the door ,so outside he sits until he gets fed up etc.
It happens every day and can be early in the morning or late at night .he has been known to shout through letterbox swearing and tbh I'm really sick of it !
He doesn't have his own home he's been sofa surfing for the 4 years I've been here and I do suspect he uses drugs aswell .
I don't feel safe here and it's awkward for my daughter to have friends round as I have to explain why he's there .
We have contacted the ha they said they can't do anything until he does something like damage our property or threaten us etc.
We have spoke to next door and she has said she will talk to him but it hasn't done any good ,he has been sleeping in the garden next door for 3 weeks so she said which is unnerving tbh.
Any advice appreciated x

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Kimberley00001 · 03/08/2014 17:59

Anyone?

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EatShitDerek · 03/08/2014 18:03

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ThatLightbulbMoment · 03/08/2014 18:06

Next time he is shouting through the letter box, call the police. And every time thereafter. We had problem neighbours and the only way to stop them shouting in the street was to repeatedly call the police. It's disturbing the peace.

Dieu · 03/08/2014 18:08

I certainly wouldn't be happy with this situation. YANBU.

Lepaskilf · 03/08/2014 18:13

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Kimberley00001 · 03/08/2014 18:21

We are not in a position to buy ,plus most private landlords are hesitant to take housing benefit .

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