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To be annoyed with do for implying I do fuck all around the house, I probably am but I need to rant!

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Davidtennantmistress · 01/08/2014 20:08

Basically he's been at sea for two days not overly had a lot of sleep but has had some, at least he's managed a bloody wee on his own though! He left the house after having weds off in a reasonable state, ie the washing up was done but nothing else.

I on the other hand work 9-3 I take the children to and from activities to entertain them while I work, clubs nursery etc I get in usually about 3.30-4 when we have the dinner prep kiss playing tea bath bed etc etc mini one hasn't been sleeping at nursery 'not tired hmmm really!' And has been waking at 3.30 am both weds and Thursday weds was my turn to get up with ds2, we do turn eaches. Thank god today he slept until 5.15. Ds1 didn't go to sleep until gone 9.30 last night and ds 2 is currently thrashing about in his bed anyhow.

I've loaded the washer rotated around (didn't hang it up this am though) I made the beds cleaned the boys rooms hoovered through scrubbed the bathroom fed the dogs, the two things not done basically we're washing up from this morning and clearing dog poop from yesterday.

I should also mention I'm 10 weeks pregnant and suffering big time with sickness and or diorehaa, not NRC in that order but you get my drift.

When my boys finally go to sleep at 7.30 usually or are sent there I want to have an hours sit down before I crawl to bed to start the day again at 3.30!!

Today he's gone off on one that the two jobs were not done, and he manages to do it, well yes I bet he bloody we'll does given how he comes in at 5.30 sits down to eat his tea then has a bath then washes dishes and sits down! It's not all that easy when you're rushing but managing work children house plus trying to grown a human!

I know I'm unreasonable as he works very long hours commuting and I know he's tired but FFS so am I!!!

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Coumarin · 01/08/2014 21:10

I'd be so mad. He's being a dick.

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Imnotaslimjim · 01/08/2014 21:15

I'd be furious. If he thinks hes so great that he manages to do it, then he can go right ahead and get stuck in!

Glasshammer · 01/08/2014 21:18

Hes Lacking in empathy, unrealistic and unsupportive.

Mumof3xox · 01/08/2014 21:19

My dp like to compare how if he is home alone he can tidy the house and it stay tidy

When I do it it doesn't last 5 mins

He fails to realise when he does it there are no dc here and when I do it there are three!

Davidtennantmistress · 01/08/2014 21:25

Exactly! To be fair when he does have the mini one at home and I'm at work nothing is done indoors and he will admit he doesn't know how I get it all done (it takes me 6 hours is how, stopping playing cake making etc) or a quick mad one hour when the boy is napping lol.

I know mostly it's tiredness on his part but by god it winds me up when he's this shitty. (I am to ATM to be fair)

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Humansatnav · 01/08/2014 21:30

My dh used to work away for 1 week per month then come out with crap like this. Until I was hospitalized for a week and he had to do it all. After that he was much more supportive Grin

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