Concerns my friend of 12 years. She and i go back to when we were at school together.
She's always been someone who i have suspected harbours a little jealousy but never enough to get riled about or confront her about it. Silly little things. Anyway...fast forward....i am getting married next year to my boyfriend of 6 years. Friend in question is a bridesmaid. I have always felt that she is probably quite high maintenance and always finds something to moan about. She spent the past year moaning about her boyfriend and i never overstepped the mark, just said on one occasion that perhaps she deserves more if he treats her in a way that she doesnt like. They split 2 months ago. A fortnight ago we had an engagement party. She knew a few people there and i told her she could bring a friend. All she did in the run up was complain by text that she wouldnt know anyone and i was very nice about. I tend to please rather than offend and ive done all i can to be supportive. On the night she wouldnt leave my side despite my other friends (also bm's who made a huge effort to talk to her) sitting with her. Constant complaining about how she didnt know anyone, how embarrassing it was that she was single and general whining. She tends to say that my life "makes her feel bad" and i find this upsetting because it makes me feel uncomfortable. She ended up going hone early and i was quite relieved. Thats an awful thing to say
I saw her for the first time since the party yesterday and all she did was ask what people thought of her. She didnt exactly talk to anyone (despite people making an effort with her) so i said i disnt know. She never enquires about my wedding and i feel it is driving is apart. We're 30 years old. Noone else behaves like this? Aibu to really dread seeing her?