DH is laid-back, which I appreciate, but it's getting to the point where he never ever makes a single decision and refers absolutely everything to me. For example, if I ask what he thinks we should have for dinner - I don't mind, you choose. If we both need a shower and I ask if he wants to go first - don't mind, you choose. Even at traffic lights, he'll ask which way I think he should go even though both ways go to our destination! What shall we do in the holidays? Don't mind. And repeat.
He even has me responsible for making the kids decisions. For example, does DD want a drink? I have no idea, bloody ask her!! It works the other way round too as he won't answer the kids questions. For example, DD asked if he'd take her to a different part of the park earlier. He wouldn't answer, so she came and asked me if he could take her to the other part! DD stood not brushing her teeth when she's supposed to be doing so, he just stands watching rather than making the decision to say anything. It is always my responsibility to decide everything - days out, food, discipline, bed time, bath time etc. and it infuriates me. AIBU to think everything shouldn't fall to me?