Husband takes 12 yr old shopping for his friends birthday present. I told him that the mum said a snazzy t shirt or such would go down well. I also said usual limit is about 10 pounds - up to 15 pounds at a stretch. I come home and a 35 pound football jersey is sitting (45 but reduced to 35). I'm not happy and think the mum might not appreciate such an expensive present (I know I wouldn't). Husband thinks I'm just being a spoiler, I tell him it's not about the money but extravagant gifts aren't usually done and look showy. Now doubting myself and maybe I'm just being a grouch and mean. So AIBU?