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33 replies

noexcuseiammental · 25/07/2014 03:22

OH went for a walk today, 3 hours later he returns.

I am paranoid and I make no excuses for that, however he has recently changed his phone passcode (I lose my phone often so use his to call mine to find it) on his email he has emails from some site asking him to meet women but they could be spam.

He goes to work an hour early, he comes home an hour late

He cheated on his ex when his son was 2 years old, our son is two years old.

Please god someone tell me I am being UR

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MildDrPepperAddiction · 29/07/2014 05:56

Morrissons don't sign people up on shagging websites. Sorry op, he is playing you.

Get rid of him. You deserve better.

noexcuseiammental · 29/07/2014 06:07

No they don't he is going for the whole morrisons had their databased acted (as did MN's) and he didn't bother changing his password.

I have no idea how likely this story is, I do however know even if I forgiven him (for in his words something in my head) I won't trust him.

Even if he is innocent that is not a good realationship

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Fooshufflewickbannanapants · 29/07/2014 06:18

Funny that Morrison's never mentioned it to their customers :-/. You know that this isn't true really, he is scratching around for excuses because he's guilty.
You will never be able to trust him and why would you want to be with someone who treats you like that?
You are stronger than you think.

HannerHet · 29/07/2014 09:27

He's lying!! Tell him you know he's lying, and if he won't even admit that then there is no going back from that. LTB

londonrach · 29/07/2014 09:41

Op you deserve a man who respects you and ds. There are so many red flags here. Hopefully we all wrong. Can you follow at a distance his next walk.

stagsden · 29/07/2014 10:52

The fact that he is still lying to you shows that he will just keep on disrespecting you and carry on shagging random people riddled with god knows what.

You dont deserve that and your ds doesnt deserve to be raised in that kind of family environment.

I do understand what your saying about not liking to sleep on your own (im like that) and wanting help with ds at night but you cannot put yourself and you ds through the rest of it for that.

Also please do get yourself checked at a clinic - i know its not nice and is probably the last thing you want to do at the moment but it is important.

YouTheCat · 29/07/2014 10:57

He's lying.

Absolute bollocks.

Monkeychopsmum · 29/07/2014 11:31

I was once using my partners laptop to do some Internet shopping, I needed an email address to register and my partners was still signed in so I used his. I couldn't see the confirmation email so I checked his junk folder and found emails from similar shag sites such as 'adult friend finder'

I clicked the link on the emails which took me straight to his profile. " I am new to this area and looking for fun" followed by a brief but accurate discriptiok of himself. He HAD just moved to the area too. I confronted him and apparently when he connected to the wifi he started getting these random spam emails and that the website must of got this information from his hotmail account. I knew it was all lied ( he admitted so a year later) but I let it slide, perhaps I'm an idiot..

But anyway the purpose for me posting is to day those sites do not create profiles themselves. If he is receiving emails from sites like that he has signed up for them.

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