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to feed my children ready meals every day

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OnlyWantsOne · 24/07/2014 09:14

.... currently I suck at meal planning

I don't actually feed my children ready meals but I'm fed up of spending £150 a week on shopping to feed me, dp and 3 children 7 and under.

I need to do an online order and I can't focus on what to buy and meal plan. I've filled my basket with ready meals and it's coming to less than £90!!!

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weegiemum · 24/07/2014 10:17

This has spurred me on to do my meal plan - thanks!!

Pinkrose1 · 24/07/2014 10:21

Mumsnet is full of good helpful ideas! Grin.

specialsubject · 24/07/2014 10:21

decent food for a couple and three small children doesn't cost £150 a week!

what shops do you have available, OP, do you have freezer space and are there any restrictions on what can be eaten? (allergies etc).

I find I am moving more towards Aldi each week, recognising that they don't do online ordering and that shopping with 3 small children in tow would be a challenge. There's quite a lot that Tesco sell for the same price though.

splendidpup · 24/07/2014 10:34

I've never really meal planned and I don't know many people who do. At least not in the sense of having an exact menu worked out for the week. I couldn't stand the boredom of working it all out and the boredom of eating it.

All I do is pick 7 main ingredients, say chicken for two nights, mince for 1 night, pork chops for one night, tuna for one night, eggs for one night and stewing steak for another.

Then I make sure my store cupboard has plenty of tins of tomatoes, pulses, rice, pasta, flour, and I've got a decent range flavourings like tabasco sauce, dried chillis, dried herbs.

Add 'enough' veg for 7 days. Onions, garlic, potatoes, peppers, frozen peas and sweetcorn are basics we always keep a good stock of. Then I'd add in extra veg I fancy, enough for another one or two per day (not all different ones each day!), so a cauliflower, a big bag of carrots, runner beans, punnet of mushrooms, and salad.

The meat goes in the freezer. Each morning I decide what to make out of what's there, get the meat out, and that's it. It depends on what we fancy. I never waste any food, it all gets eaten, although sometimes we end up with a slightly random selection of ingredients and have to think of something weird and wonderful like Ready Steady Cook, but it's more interesting that way. But as long as you've got your basics like tinned toms, potatoes, pasta, rice, you can make a meal with anything. Even basic meat and two veg is fine a lot of the time, you don't always have to be cooking 'things' like lasagne or pies or Morrocan tagines etc.

This time of year probably twice a week we have salad and picky stuff like ham, eggs, anchovies, olives, cheese, hummous and pitta, nachos with melted cheese on, tinned fish, smoked mackerel, cold meats left over from previous meals. Not all in one meal of course.

splendidpup · 24/07/2014 10:39

Also if you want to cut costs, you can't beat actually going to the supermarket at the time they reduce stuff. Last night I spent £11 and got 2 large packs of chicken thighs, a pack of flavoured chicken breasts (only enough for 2 people), a pork belly joint, and 2 packs of premium sausages. That's enough for 4 family sized meals plus the breasts I'll probably slice up for sandwiches.

OnlyWantsOne · 24/07/2014 10:50

that money does include a packet of nappies, £5 cat food, cleaning things etc

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OnlyWantsOne · 24/07/2014 10:53

ive just done a very VERY conservative shop - for £100

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OnlyWantsOne · 24/07/2014 10:54

Youngs 20 Fish Fingers 500G £1.95
1 Wildlife Fromage Frais 18X45g £2.00
1 Tesco Ashbeck Sparkling Water 4X2ltr £1.50
1 Wildlife Choobs Mixed Fruit 6X40g £1.00
2 Tesco Everydayvalue Complete Cat Food With Poultry 1Kg £2.14
1 Kitekat Megamix In Jelly 6 X 400G £2.70
1 Birds Eye Garden Peas 800G £2.19
1 Tesco Wafer Thin Honey Roast Ham 235G £1.90
1 Clipper Fair Trade 160 Teabag 500G £4.00
1 Tesco Everyday Value Custard Cream Biscuits 400G £0.35
1 Tesco Butchers Choice British 12 Chipolata Sausages 340G £1.80
1 Tesco Orange Peppers Each £0.60
1 Tesco Red Peppers Each £0.60
1 Tesco Sliced Mixed Peppers 500G £1.00
1 Tesco Baby Plum Tomatoes 325G £1.00
1 Tesco Californian Seedless Raisins 500G £1.69
1 Aquafresh Fresh Minty Toothpaste 100Ml £1.00
1 Tesco Kids Strawberry Toothpaste 75Ml £1.15
1 Tesco 5In1 Dishwash Lemon 30'S £4.00
4 Tesco Braeburn Apples Loose £1.25
1 Tesco Clementine Or Sweet Easy Peeler Pack 600G £1.25
1 Tesco Seedless Grape Selection Pack 500G £2.00
2 Tesco Everyday Value Bananas Min 8 Pack £2.30
1 John West Tuna Chunks Sunflower Oil4x160g £3.50
1 Tesco Anchovy Fillets In Olive Oil 50G £0.79
2 Tesco Loves Baby U/Soft Fragrance Free Wipes 64 Pack £2.00
1 Tesco Loves Baby Ultra Dry Size 6 Extra Large Economy Pack 30 £5.97
2 Tesco Chickpea 400G £1.10
1 Kelloggs Rice Krispies 510G £2.00
1 Tesco Wheat Biscuits 48Pk £3.39
3 Tesco Everyday Value Salted Block Butter 250G £2.94
2 Tesco British Mature White Cheddar 450G £6.00
2 Warburtons Crumpets 9Pk £2.40
2 Hovis Wholemeal Medium Bread 800G £2.00
1 Hovis Soft White Thick Bread 800G £1.00
6 Tesco British Semi Skimmed Milk 3.480L/6Pints £8.88
1 Tesco Broccoli Loose £0.53
1 Tesco White Cabbage Each £0.84
1 Heinz Top Down Squeezy Tomato Ketchup Sauce 700G £2.00
15 Tesco Carrots Loose £1.12
1 Tesco Everyday Value Round Lettuce £0.40
1 Tesco Maris Piper Potatoes 2.5Kg £2.00
1 Tesco Baby Potatoes 1Kg £0.67
1 Tesco Celery 450G £0.49
1 Tesco Brown Cooking Onions 1Kg £0.79
1 Tesco Garlic 4 Pack £1.00
1 Tesco Coriander Medium Pot £1.25
1 Al'fez Natural Tahini 160G £1.99
1 Comfort Fab Conditioner Pure 85Wash/3 Litre £3.00
2 Tesco Beef Mince 500G £4.00

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 24/07/2014 12:16

Nearly £20 of that is 'non food' cleaning products, pet food and baby products. So you're only spending £80 on actual meals. I don't think that's unreasonable

BobPatandIgglePiggle · 24/07/2014 12:29

Unless you have a stocked freezer I can't really see meals for a week in that shop op.

OnlyWantsOne · 24/07/2014 12:34

Can you not?

Spaghetti bol (I have pasta tin toms tom paste etc in cupboard)

I have fish and prawns in freezer so have brought potatoes for topping

I have a chicken in freezer so can do roast and a curry

Salad and eggs, humous etc

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Staryyeyedsurprise · 24/07/2014 12:39

BobPatandIgglePiggle
Unless you have a stocked freezer I can't really see meals for a week in that shop op.

I think I agree. for example what are you having the anchovies with? What are you doing with the chick peas? The chipolata sausages?

Fair enough I can see the mince/potatoes or chicken/cabbage/potatoes/carrots combos But equally I wonder if 1kg mince is a lot for one week unless you're batch cooking/freezing?

I love nosing at people's supermarket bills

Staryyeyedsurprise · 24/07/2014 12:40

Ah cross post! You seem like you're doing fine really.

OnlyWantsOne · 24/07/2014 12:43

Chickpea is for humous

Anchovies is for salad with eggs

I didn't order toilet roll or crisps.

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specialsubject · 24/07/2014 12:51

a list, aha!

I agree that you have a lot to spend on cat food and baby stuff. The cat seems to be eating rather posh...

one or two suggestions -
be a 'cheese tart' - you can get it down to £6/kg or less by looking for the ever changing offers. Tesco's own brand is ok but sometimes the branded stuff is cheaper.
milk is currently £1 for 4 pints. Ethically that isn't good but that's another thread. You are paying too much.

if you eat rice, look in the 'world foods' bit where they do big bags of basmati for £6 or so. Lasts for months. Also the tinned tomatoes there (the East End ones) are much better than their standard ones and cheaper.

if you have a B and M or similar near you and can leave the kids at home, go there to stock up on toiletries, baby kit etc. Will make a big difference in the bill.

OnlyWantsOne · 24/07/2014 12:59

The cheese is on special offer 2 X 450g for £6

The milk is 6 X 6pints for £8

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chocolatemademefat · 24/07/2014 13:32

why don't you buy one of the famous mumsnet chickens and feed everyone three times a day, seven days a week from it? Save the rest of your money for wine to go with the meals.........

Preciousbane · 24/07/2014 16:58

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HaroldLloyd · 24/07/2014 17:19

It's youghurt in a tube isn't it?

layla888 · 24/07/2014 17:35

Hi I haven't read the other replies so dont know if this has been said. Try a company like Hello Fresh who deliver a big box of food all meals planned out for you with all the ingredients and recipes detailing step by step how to cook them. If you look around you can probably find a voucher code. Then just onlime shop for drinks and household essentials.

Bonbonbonbon · 24/07/2014 20:00

One thing I'm finding really helpful this summer is having a CSA. It is Community Supported Agriculture, where you buy a share in a farm's output in advance, so the farmer gets the money up front and you get fresh veg every week.

Anyway each week I get an email saying what will be in my box, so I can plan my grocery shopping around that. They also give some recipe ideas for the items. My farm is a co-op and there are some Hmong and Latin American farmers so some of the items I am less familiar with, so the suggestions are helpful.

It costs about $20/week, paid in advance in May. I'm finding that I'm having to pickle or freeze some of it so definitely getting my money's worth.

I also got a cookbook called Asparagus to Zucchini which gives recipes by vegetable and I look there for inspiration.

The CSA takes some of the thinking out of it because I have to use what I receive. I do a dinner menu of stuff in rotation and vague "pasta" or "curry" items. Like others I keep a stocked pantry and spice cupboard as well.

Hatetidyingthehouse · 24/07/2014 20:22

M and s do ones for kids. I can't imagine they are that bad...

DogCalledRudis · 25/07/2014 08:10

I like to cook, and i like to cook from scratch, but since i'm only one in the house doing that, plus a family of fusspots, i buy ready/frozen meals more than often. Saves time, saves money, plus can't get it wrong to somebody who loves Youngs fish pie, or iceland's meal in the bags

OwlCapone · 25/07/2014 08:18

If you're crap at meal planning, start by writing a list of the meals you and your family like to eat. Sort them into groups based on the main ingredient and think about whether they provide any left overs which go to another meal.

Crinkle77 · 25/07/2014 13:54

Scrumbled I think the same about readfy meals. I hardly ever buy them but if I do it's when they are reduced and I will just get them in as an emergency or to take for lunch in work. I don't find that they are filling enough andnthe portions are tiny. If I get a ready cottage pie or something I will add sme extra veg to bulk it out otherwise I am starving.

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