I don't understand why he needed to take them into a cubicle, show them pee on the floor, and then discuss it with them in that setting?
I would not be happy if dd were taken into a loo and shown how to dispose of sanitary supplies in a bin either, even though obviously that is something I want her to learn.
When I was in secondary in Ireland in the late 70s and early 80s there was an ongoing problem one year with some girls leaving used STs and tampons strewn around in one particular bathroom.
The school was divided into areas, with the classes from each separate year having their homerooms in particular areas, and each area had a boys' loo and a girls' loo. The disgraceful loo happened to be in the area that my year's homeroom was in. The loo was located near one of the exits and was used by pretty much every girl in the school. Nevertheless the girls in my year were all marched in to see the mess, marched out, and read the riot act by the Principal who was a man (not a priest; it was not a religious school). He didn't do any shaming of anyone and he didn't say anything to indicate he thought there was anything distasteful about periods, etc. What he focused on was respect for the cleaning crew and by extension respect for anyone else employed to do menial jobs, and how arrogant it was to leave a mess like that for someone else to clean up even if they were paid to clean.
Names were picked out of a hat, latex gloves from the biology lab were distributed, and the offending items were picked up by those unlucky girls whose names had been picked. Next time it happened more names were picked. Gradually the problem came to an end.
The school cleaners (a crew of women some of whom had children and grandchildren in the school) had refused to clean biohazards and tbh I do not blame them. Neither did any of the parents, even those whose daughters had done their turn cleaning.
I don't think anyone, least of all lowly school cleaners, is paid enough to deal with that sort of mess children and teens (boys and girls alike) are capable of leaving in a school loo.
I don't think missing the loo is confined solely to pre-teen boys, given some of the threads I have seen on here about some people's DHs!
Maybe if some priest had taken those DHs aside when they were schoolboys and told them how to pee into the loo no women who clean the bathrooms after them would be complaining?
DS is ...not terribly guilty of peeing like a puppy
So he sometimes misses the toilet????
This attitude of acceptance of sheer contempt towards the person who will clean it all up gives me The Rage.
Do you seriously put up with this from a preteen boy?
