Disclaimer: I don't like dogs. I don't like any indoor pets. I don't like the smell, the hair or the drool. I don't hate them, I just don't want an indoor pet.
A former teaching colleague rang this morning and asked if we could have a "catch up" and could she call in for a coffee. I extended the coffee to a pot luck lunch invitation and was really looking forward to a good old natter.
Until I opened the door and saw that she'd brought her dog with her. It's big, very friendly and hairy. It walked straight in before I had chance to say anything. I felt very uncomfortable but didn't feel I could ask her to leave it outside.
By the time they'd gone there was hair all over the carpet, the furniture and me. There were drool marks where it had lain on the carpet and water all over the kitchen floor from where she'd asked me to give it a bowl of water.
We have a large secure garden and I suggested she put it outside after half an hour of licks and hairy kisses but she didn't want to. And I was "too British" to insist.
Surely she should have asked if she could bring the dog? Or is the etiquette that you just take them anyway, welcome or not?