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AIBU?

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About DD staying with ex con?

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Fanfeckintastic · 13/07/2014 21:31

DD's(3) dad moved back with his mother and sisters when we split up as it was my house, his mother and sisters are absolutely wonderful and adore DD. I'm really grateful she has them as I don't have brothers or sisters. However he has a real bad egg brother who has been in jail for the past 8 years for drugs, he's now in a halfway house type thing and gets a day out here and there. I have always been quiet about my reservations about DDs grandmother bringing her to varies different exhibitions etc put on by the prisoners because it does really seem like her uncle wants a relationship with her and I completely trust the rest of the family to make the right choices but he is due to be released next year and has been out for a day here and there recently.

I'm really worried as I know he will also be moving back to the family home and the sisters will be moving out (they were only back briefly) and it doesn't sound like he's changed his ways at all from what ex has said. I remember the raids and the horrible company he kept though I was only a teenager then, he was very much feared in the area.

AIBU to feel scared for my DD when I trust ex and his mother so much? This man is such a bully and none of them were ever willing to stand up to him, I'm not sure what I can do if anything.

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ThatBloodyWoman · 13/07/2014 21:34

I don't think the ex con big is necessarily a problem, but the description of him as having been a bully is for me.

ThatBloodyWoman · 13/07/2014 21:34

Sorry, 'bit' not 'big'.

greeneggsandjam · 14/07/2014 01:42

If he hasn't changed his ways at all then I would not be keen either. Is there any way you can move a few hundred miles away??

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