Been divorced about 4 years, split a year after having our first and only baby DD. He's been with his partner for about 4 years and so it really shouldn't be a surprise.
I'm really upset about it. We had trouble conceiving (him) and it took us 3 years and a round of IVF. He then became 'depressed' for DD's first year and made my life a misery (I don't think he was actually depressed hence the inverted commas I did suggest the doctors it was more he didn't love me anymore). He need to have some 'fun'.
I don't want him back. I don't wish him any unhappiness I think I just feel hugely jealous. However unreasonable it feels like he stole my future (I always wanted more than 1 child but resigned myself after our fertility issues to not probably, and now still single I am too old!) and he now gets to have another chance and I don't.
I think I might also be worried DD (6 yo) will prefer spending time there rather than here as is keen for a sibling (she'll be delighted when she finds out which is a really nice thing).
I cried all afternoon (xh wasn't the most sensitive in telling me) is this normal?!!!