To feel guilty!

[Rigbyroo]

I've got an online shopping delivery slot booked between 10 and 11, got a call 20 min ago to say he's in the area could he come earlier. I said not really as dd is still in bed and I'm feeding ds. I was very apologetic but now I feel really bad about it, will he just have to sit in his van and wait?

You sound a bit unreasonable to be honest. It is 9am and surely a delivery would not wake DD?

Now you have to sit around until 11 am potentially.

Why feel guilty, you want the slot you booked.

He will probably drive somewhere else and then come back over to your area at the correct time. It will waste fuel and be un-environmentally friendly but the store should arrange the routes better to avoid this.
I would have welcomed the earlier delivery if I was in as it frees up the rest of my day, but that is just me. He wasn't wrong to ask, but you are within your rights to refuse.

Sounds a bit unreasonable. He will probably go somewhere else and come back but you probably added an hour of to his finish time and when he gets home.

I thought I was being a bit unreasonable. I booked 10-11 for the convenience though, not dressed, milky boobs out and just generally a mess! Would have been more sorted by 10.

I wouldn't feel guilty, he probably thought he was doing you a favour to get it to you early if he was passing.
Mine do this quite often and i appreciate it but if I'm not back from work yet when they call, they're totally fine too - think they just get given really illogical routes sometimes.

Why feel guilty, you book a time slot and it wasn't convenient before then.

Don't feel guilty, you are busy feeding! It's really not a big deal and I am sure the driver won't lose much sleep over it!

They'll go somewhere else first and come back to you. The last time mine turned up a little early I was still on the way back from school and he was just about to set off to his next drop then come back to me.

Either he'll go somewhere else first or he'll just sit and wait but I'm sure he won't mind sitting having an unofficial break. My dp drives a truck and there is one place that is consistently late with the things he needs to load up, I think he secretly loves that time when he can't do anything ( home life is hectic as we have a toddler) dp just listens to music or catches up with facebook when his loading/unloading schedule has gaps.