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AIBU or have I just been extremely naive?

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ClittyClittyGangBang · 07/07/2014 22:57

I have NC'd for this, think I might get flamed.

I sell handmade crafts and soaps, vintage bits and pieces and the odd piece of retro furniture. There are some shabby chic in there as well. I also sell chalk paint. At the moment I am based out of my garage and my kitchen and had been looking at a property for a while.

Moving into a shop will also mean my sister can have an outlet for her dressmaking and haberdashery bits that she sells.

Anyhow, a retail shop close to us became vacant months ago but no one was interested as it had been a really dodgy takeaway. We viewed and worked out that we could afford the rent between the two of us. The only problem was the refitting of the shop, so I approached a builder who I know personally for a quote for a strip out of the kitchen and counter and obligatory fish tank.

Anyhow, he was quite taken up with what we wanted to do. He listened to what we wanted and then gave us a quote which was a little higher than we had expected. We then approached the letting agent, imagine our surprise from being the only person interested to the shop had suddenly been rented out earlier that day. A change of usage notice was posted on the door, so I guessed it was going to be a shop of some kind.

Roll on a few months, and guess who is starting up a business in there selling all of the above? The builder's wife. Guess what she is selling? Exactly the same stock as we were going to have, she is on FB posting about all of her "vintage stock". Guess how they have done the decor? Exactly to our specification.

Am I right to be devastated or AIBU and this is just how people do "business"?

OP posts:
Groovee · 24/07/2014 11:41

Get the sign down and pm us all your fb page so we can like it.

You can rise above all of this and still be in business.

And if she approaches you to do work for her, take great pleasure in saying "no thanks!"

SybilRamkin · 24/07/2014 13:57

OMG, the brass neck of the woman! She is shameless! OP, contact the craft fairs etc to ask why you've been bumped, explain that as a sole trader without a premises you rely on these fairs for your livelihood and maybe it'll tug on their heartstrings sufficiently to get your stall back! Don't let this go without at least trying to get your place back from this witch.

NickyEds · 24/07/2014 15:16

i can't bloody believe your last post! I was about to tell you not to worry about your fairs. I had something similar where someone copied my designs and tried to get into a couple of fairs I normally do. The event holders circled the wagons and, after the first fair where I saw what she'd done, refused her further spots. I was a good customer and a long standing stall holder so they could see it was out of line. Have you contacted the event organisers? When I paid for them there was a contract I had to sign on payment so they couldn't "bump" me.

BeCool · 24/07/2014 15:28

Can you contact the organizers of the 6 upcoming fairs and secure your place, either by paying a deposit if you haven't already, or by getting something in writing? If you do get a written contract you should insist on a clause in there that they can't give a spot to a similar type stall.

thefirstmrsrochester · 24/07/2014 15:45

My jaw is well and truly on the floor. What a bloody nerve. If you PM me details of your FB page, I'd be happy to share also.

Oh, and be sure to turn up to the events you have been 'bumped' from, eyeball the brazen cow, photograph everything she has ripped off and do look into a solicitors letter.

Gutted for you.

Is there any way you can contact your previous clients, followers on your old FB page so you can put them right in the picture? Hopeful word will spread and she can poach no more.

Picklepest · 24/07/2014 15:46

I don't understand how you have been bumped? Trade shows like those are clear about t&cs?

Put up your page. Let us see ur stuff.

BeCool · 24/07/2014 15:49

oh yes do turn up and forensically photograph her stall!! I will do it for you if any are near me (West London)

FreeWee · 06/09/2014 20:13

Any update on this OP? Did you hear back from the event organisers about why you got bumped?

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