To call and message ex to prove a point?

[Onsietwosie]

I have had it with him I understand he's asking certain things about dcs but he's not really that bothered he doesn't see or call them often only when he feels like it anyway dts1 hit his head on fri nothing serious just a bump he was pissed off that I didn't tell him bearing In mind I haven't spoken to him for almost two weeks why would I call? I dealt with it without him as I deal with everything else which is what I told him he flipped as usual and told me he wants to know everything they do during the day.
So I have taken it upon myself to txt every mundane detail of what they are doing including going to the toilet...so Aibu?

His lesson has been well and truly learned

YANBU. He's just being a prat and having a go for the sake of it. It's that damned if you do and damned if you don't thing. Good on you for not taking on his stuff. It can be exhausting dealing with someone like that - whatever you do is wrong, but once you get a handle on it, you can just laugh it off.

I was once "told" that I was not to contact xh on the landline and I must only phone him when he was free and not driving, and no he couldn't tell me what time of day would be best. The next time he asked why I hadn't rung him about something I just replied "I didn't know whether you'd be free and I thought you might be driving". It was hilarious. The only person who gets wound up these days is him.

Their 3.5 so no they wouldn't really tell him unless it had just happened when he calls they don't speak to him regularly he calls a few times a wk mostly when they have gone to bed or late at night.

So he doesn't call to talk to them?

He does for example he will call at 6 today then tomorrow he will call around 9 asking to speak to them knowing full well they are In bed